AGED CARE: Learn the steps to helping your mum or dad settle into good aged care.
AGED CARE: Learn the steps to helping your mum or dad settle into good aged care.

How do I help my parents in their final years?

START with finding a good Aged Care facility and then address the finances as you work towards ensuring your mum or dad are well cared for in later years and her care costs are affordable.

I use the example of a mum who is 92 and a widow. She is now at an age where she is struggling to care for herself. Her family have been advised that she will need to make the move to an Aged Care facility as home care is not an option. The cost of various facilities varies markedly. The preferred option has a deposit of $650,000 and care fees of around $26,000 a year. The mum owns her home worth around $1,050,000 and there is $35,000 in the bank. She receives the full Aged Pension.

Where to start

In order to be admitted to an Aged Care facility your mum will need to be assessed by the Aged Care Assessment Team (ACAT), this will usually be booked by her GP or the hospital.  Once an ACAT assessment confirms your mum requires residential care, you can approach facilities to discuss admission.

Whilst you are deciding on a facility it is really important to recognise that your mum is entitled to 63 days of respite care. In the first instance, this may be a rehabilitation hospital but may become an Aged Care facility on a trial basis. There is a daily care cost associated with this care, but this gives you time to assess the facility.  The 63 days can be extended by a further 21 days in certain circumstances subject to approval from the Department of Aged Care.

Given your mum's assets, she will be financially assessed as being an unsupported resident. This is important as she will not be reliant upon finding a place for those with 'low means' which are often hard to find and offer limited choice.

Before focusing on the costs, I encourage you to focus on finding a facility that your mum and the family will be happy with.  Once you find the right facility, then the process of working out how to fund her admission can be determined.

Care costs for an Aged Care facility comprise the following:

  • A daily care fee of $50.16 per day which everyone pays (this fee is set at 85 per cent of the single full Aged Pension). 
  • A means-tested care fee which is determined by your mum's assets and income.  In order to have this amount determined you need to complete an income and assets assessment form (SA457) and lodge this form with the Department of Human Services. If this form is not completed your mum will be required to pay the full cost of care and will receive no government subsidy. This fee is capped and a lifetime limit applies.
  • The facility may also charge an extra and additional services fee which applies to premium or extra services. The final cost for an Aged Care facility is the Refundable Accommodation Deposit (RAD) which covers the cost of accommodation.

Understand Refundable Accommodation Deposit 

It is typically the RAD that is most misunderstood and causes the most concern when planning for Aged Care.  As the name suggests, the RAD is refundable when a resident leaves a facility.  A facility is obliged to repay a RAD within 14 days of the resident giving notice of vacating or within 14 days of being shown a Grant of Probate or Letters of Administration.  The full value of the RAD is refunded unless the RAD has been used to fund ongoing costs.

You have the choice to either pay the RAD in full or choose a periodic payment known as a Daily Accommodation Payment (DAP) or a combination of both. The DAP payment is calculated as a percentage of the equivalent RAD; currently 5.77 per cent. 

So, if you didn't pay the $650,000 RAD, your mum would pay $102.75 per day as a DAP. 

You need to consider which approach you wish to take.  You have 28 days from the time of signing the admission papers to decide.  The facility cannot refuse admission based on your preference and you have the freedom to change your mind.

There are various strategies available to reduce the means-tested care fee, maximise Centrelink Age Pension entitlements and manage the future viability of your mum's care.  You need to seek advice from a qualified adviser in this area to understand what options and rights your mum has and how to manage her finances to get the best outcome possible. 

Usually, we recommend seeking this advice before making any major decision like selling the family home.

Visit or phone 1800 200 422 for further information on Aged Care services.

Q&A with The Coach first appeared on Any general advice in this story doesn't take account of personal objectives, financial situation and needs.

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